You say you surprise if you’ll make it by this grief of yours. Simplistic as it might appear, the way in which you may make it’s by doing it at some point at a time, and if that’s an excessive amount of, you do it one hour and even one minute at a time. One basic reality that I hope you may settle for is that there isn’t a proper or incorrect approach to do that factor known as grief. There’s solely your approach, and you could uncover that approach for your self. Others can share with you all of the issues we have discovered and accomplished and tried to assist ourselves alongside the way in which, however it’s as much as you to choose and select what works for you and discard what doesn’t. Simply know that to do nothing, to easily let time go as if “time heals all wounds,” is barely to delay the work that must be accomplished. The passage of time does nothing to heal grief ~ it’s what we do with the time that issues.