Each week, my father meets with a bunch of about eight Trinidadian buddies on Zoom, to attach and, as we Trinis say, “ol’ discuss.” In some way, even though they’ve been assembly like this for over a decade, I knew nothing of this gathering till lately.

“Karen, you’ve by no means seen something prefer it,” my mother instructed me. “Generally I am going disguise in a nook and fake I’m studying a guide, however principally I’m simply eavesdropping on their dialog. They’re continuously teasing one another and arguing and laughing and speaking over one another.” She shook her head. “For hours, the whole thing of them simply get louder and louder, and all I can do is sit there and chuckle.”

“How are you aware these individuals?” I requested my dad.

“Oh, a few of them are buddies from highschool,” he stated. “And a few of them are of us I met throughout my profession.” My dad had labored a petroleum engineer. Given the significance of the power business to the Trinidadian financial system, he had change into well-known within the nation consequently.

“Is everybody within the group in oil and fuel?” I requested.

“No. One is a psychiatrist. One is a physician, and one is a dentist. There’s an economist. All had very profitable careers however at the moment are all retired and have been for many years. We used to satisfy in particular person at a clubhouse known as the Cosmos Membership in Port-of-Spain at about 4:30 within the afternoon each Friday. We’d sit on the bar, and one particular person would convey some road meals in. I’d be part of them each time I used to be again house in Trinidad, about 4 occasions a yr. However then, when COVID hit and Trinidad went into lockdown, the membership closed. So we started assembly on Zoom.”

“What do you guys discuss?”

“Nicely, it’s only a lime!” “Lime” is a Trinidadian phrase we use to imply a “gathering,” however with a particular emphasis on connecting with one another. “And you already know what occurs in a lime,” my dad continued. “Often there’s meals and drinks, and ol’ discuss. And ol’ discuss in Trinidad is at all times a couple of topic or two or three, usually occurring Concurrently.”